popular opinion

well...
Danielle says to fold

Any one else have any thoughts?

I think I'm going to put up a poll. Now that doesn't mean that I'm going to have any decisions made for me, but I am curious what all of you think about this mess.

I will tell you one thing that I WON'T do. I won't just walk away... I've searched my soul and have come to the conclusion that I want her in my life in some kind of capacity. Believe me, I've had a long time to think about that one.
It may seem masochistic, and it probably is in some ways..... and I may seem like an idiot to some of you but I am perfectly aware of the risk/reward involved.

I will have her rip my heart to shreds, stomp on me, spit in my face and walk away before I lose my soul again to "what if".... a shattered heart will heal. a lifetime of regret will not